Have you ever gone out of your way to do good and help others in difficult times only to be overlooked or forgotten? Maybe as they recall the experience, you find your efforts credited to someone else or not even in their recollection. This forgetfulness sometimes happens in different situations. Stress can definitely affect what we remember. Maybe, you’re just so close to them that their mind categorizes your efforts differently as we sometimes do with family members.
I remember several times thru the years when my wife would become annoyed with me because I shared something with her I had recently learned from another.
Virginia’s annoyance was not with the info but rather, the fact that she had told me the same thing herself (maybe more than once), and here I was, giving all the credit to someone else and excitingly telling it to her as if it was the first time I had ever heard it. Yi yi yi!
The point is, not being credited, thanked, or having the credit given to someone else can be slightly discouraging, but it happens.
We just need to ask ourselves, why do we do good things? We see a need, and we step up. Are we looking to be praised? No, for most, we simply want to help others through the love and compassion in our hearts. It’s not about us. It’s about them.
“And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up. So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith.”Galatians 6:9-10
- Getting Credit doesn’t matter
- Being forgotten doesn’t matter
What really matters?
- Sharing God’s Word matters
- Continuing to do good matters
- Showing love matters
- Making a difference to the glory of God- these are the things that matter.
Jesus tells us:
“But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.”Matthew 6:3-4
Writer: Wayne Johnson