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Even in Death, Stephen Was Teaching

As Christians, we should strive to follow Stephen’s example by teaching God’s Word from the beginning to the end of this worldly life.

Even in death, Stephen was teaching!

“Then they cast him out of the city and stoned him. And the witnesses laid down their garments at the feet of a young man named Saul. And as they were stoning Stephen, he called out, ‘Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.’ And falling to his knees he cried out with a loud voice, ‘Lord, do not hold this sin against them.’ And when he had said this, he fell asleep.” (Acts 7:58–60)

Note verse 59: “And as they were stoning Stephen, he called out, ‘Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.’”

Here, Stephen’s words exemplify what faith, trust, and commitment entail. He did not keep these words only in his heart; he loudly called them out. Stephen did not beg them to stop or try to take back his words. Instead, he demonstrated his belief in and trust in God by his example. With a loud voice, Stephen teaches them and us as he identifies their action as sin.

Saul (later Paul) was present for all of this (verse 58). Whether the men stoning Stephen recognized it in the moment or only later, their actions were not justice but sin. Among his last words, Stephen called them out on this. Certainly this did not escape Paul as he later grew in understanding.

In his death, Stephen also teaches forgiveness. In verse 60, he asks God not to hold this sin against them. This teaches us that Stephen did not leave this world with a grudge or hating those who were taking his life. Rather, he left demonstrating compassion for their ignorance and love for the souls of his murderers, appealing to God for their forgiveness of this sin.

It is reasonable to imagine how Paul may have reflected on these memories later in life. How they may have burned in his heart, knowing he could not change what he had been part of, yet these memories likely became fuel that drove him to teach and share Jesus no matter what the worldly consequences might be.

Paul later stated: “The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the foremost. But I received mercy for this reason, that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display His perfect patience as an example to those who were to believe in Him for eternal life. To the King of the ages, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen.” (1 Timothy 1:15–17)

Stephen teaches us that the message does not stop when life is threatened. We are called to speak the truth and extend forgiveness even when it costs us. May we follow his example by teaching God’s Word from the beginning to the end of this worldly life.

For reference: Acts 7:58–60; 1 Timothy 1:15–17; Colossians 3:13; 1 John 2:15–17; Hebrews 13:14–16; Matthew 6:21; Mark 16:15; Luke 23:34, 46; Acts 8:1; Philippians 1:21; Romans 12:14, 21; 2 Timothy 4:7–8.

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To Tolerate Everything Is To Stand for Nothing: Why We Must Teach Our Children to Care and Stand for Righteousness — God First!

Pursuing “the right things” only matters to those who care. We need to teach our children to care so they will want to stand up for what is right. When we fail to take a stand and do nothing, we teach our children apathy, which is the same as teaching them that wrong is okay; look the other way. IT’S NOT!

Doing wrong doesn’t matter to the unconscientious, so we must train our children to be conscientious, to care. We need to teach righteousness in our homes and by our examples. The best source for lessons in righteousness, love for others, and selflessness is God’s Word.

Training Children in Righteousness

  • Proverbs 22:6 – “Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he is old he will not depart from it.“
  • Deuteronomy 6:6-7 – “These words, which I am commanding you today, shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up.”
  • Ephesians 6:4 – “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.“
  • 2 Timothy 3:15-17- “and that from childhood you have known the sacred writings which are able to give you the wisdom that leads to salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.” (emphasis added)

Rejecting Apathy

  • James 4:17 – “Therefore, to one who knows the right thing to do and does not do it, to him it is sin.”
  • Proverbs 24:11-12 – “Deliver those who are being taken away to death, And those who are staggering to slaughter, Oh hold them back. If you say, “See, we did not know this,” Does He not consider it who weighs the hearts? And does He not know it who keeps your soul? And will He not render to man according to his work?

Not Tolerating Evil

  • Ephesians 5:11 – “Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them;” (emphasis added)
  • Revelation 3:15-16 –‘I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot; I wish that you were cold or hot. So because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of My mouth.’

Caring for Others & Christ’s Attitude

  • Philippians 2:3-5 – Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus,“

Putting God First

  • Matthew 6:33 – “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

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Prayer and the hearts of children

The heart of a child is so pure, and hearing them pray is such a great blessing, as those little but enormous hearts shine with their words of love. Every parent who believes in Jesus should take time each day to teach, listen, and encourage their children to pray.

It’s a true gift to experience the thoughts and words of the pure heart as our children pray for people, topics, and concerns that come to those little minds. While they repeat what you taught about approaching God in Jesus’ name, encourage them to add their own thoughts rather than a cut-and-paste memorized prayer, and you will find these moments are both precious and informative. Just listen, learn, and absorb as they share their hearts with our Heavenly Father. Listening to them pray can easily become some of the best memories you ever experience as you share the love of Jesus with them; it is downright inspirational.

We can learn so much from the hearts of children. Make and prioritize this time, and you’ll never regret it!

  • Matthew 19:14
  • Matthew 18:3
  • Mark 10:15
  • Luke 18:17
  • Matthew 18:4

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