The best life is a God First life

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Even in Death, Stephen Was Teaching

As Christians, we should strive to follow Stephen’s example by teaching God’s Word from the beginning to the end of this worldly life.

Even in death, Stephen was teaching!

“Then they cast him out of the city and stoned him. And the witnesses laid down their garments at the feet of a young man named Saul. And as they were stoning Stephen, he called out, ‘Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.’ And falling to his knees he cried out with a loud voice, ‘Lord, do not hold this sin against them.’ And when he had said this, he fell asleep.” (Acts 7:58–60)

Note verse 59: “And as they were stoning Stephen, he called out, ‘Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.’”

Here, Stephen’s words exemplify what faith, trust, and commitment entail. He did not keep these words only in his heart; he loudly called them out. Stephen did not beg them to stop or try to take back his words. Instead, he demonstrated his belief in and trust in God by his example. With a loud voice, Stephen teaches them and us as he identifies their action as sin.

Saul (later Paul) was present for all of this (verse 58). Whether the men stoning Stephen recognized it in the moment or only later, their actions were not justice but sin. Among his last words, Stephen called them out on this. Certainly this did not escape Paul as he later grew in understanding.

In his death, Stephen also teaches forgiveness. In verse 60, he asks God not to hold this sin against them. This teaches us that Stephen did not leave this world with a grudge or hating those who were taking his life. Rather, he left demonstrating compassion for their ignorance and love for the souls of his murderers, appealing to God for their forgiveness of this sin.

It is reasonable to imagine how Paul may have reflected on these memories later in life. How they may have burned in his heart, knowing he could not change what he had been part of, yet these memories likely became fuel that drove him to teach and share Jesus no matter what the worldly consequences might be.

Paul later stated: “The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am the foremost. But I received mercy for this reason, that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display His perfect patience as an example to those who were to believe in Him for eternal life. To the King of the ages, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen.” (1 Timothy 1:15–17)

Stephen teaches us that the message does not stop when life is threatened. We are called to speak the truth and extend forgiveness even when it costs us. May we follow his example by teaching God’s Word from the beginning to the end of this worldly life.

For reference: Acts 7:58–60; 1 Timothy 1:15–17; Colossians 3:13; 1 John 2:15–17; Hebrews 13:14–16; Matthew 6:21; Mark 16:15; Luke 23:34, 46; Acts 8:1; Philippians 1:21; Romans 12:14, 21; 2 Timothy 4:7–8.

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Why Do Good People Suffer? Satan, Not God

Why do bad things happen to good people? The book of Job gives a clear answer that often surprises people.

Who brought all the calamities to Job? It was NOT God. Who blamed God? It was NOT Job. Who believed Job would NOT turn from God? It was NOT Satan.

God permitted the test and set the limits (Job 1:12; 2:6), but He did NOT cause the suffering. Satan was the one who struck Job (Job 2:7).

Job’s friends were wise men, and much of their general teaching was sound. Their problem was that they misapplied their wisdom by trying to force it into Job’s situation. They assumed his suffering must be the result of personal sin, leaned on their own understanding, and tried to assign blame, which made God angry with them, so He rebuked them (Job 42:7).

When we do what Job’s friends did, lean on our own understanding and force our assumptions into God’s Word, we miss the wisdom, love, and peace that come only from listening to and applying Scripture rather than our own ideas. The book of Job warns us against this mistake and points us back to trusting the Lord rather than relying on our own deductions (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Scripture tells us to study. It shows us how to become “in Christ.” Jesus said, “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments” (John 14:15). God’s Word is the way to wisdom, understanding, and peace.

God is love. God is good. Satan is the evil one. The difference matters, and Scripture shows us the way.

Key Scriptures
Proverbs 3:5-6
2 Timothy 3:1-17
Acts 2:38
Romans 6:1-23
1 Corinthians 15:22
Job 1:1–42

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Satan’s Easiest Targets: Who Are They?

Satan’s easiest targets are those ill-prepared to fight.

When we don’t know what we have or how to use it, it’s like taking a water hose to a house fire and telling the firefighters we have it under control.

Satan has been honing his skills; enticing, tempting, and deceiving us to the point that many no longer recognize sin and call evil good and good evil.

Being prepared does not come by osmosis; it takes action on our part. God’s Word is our spiritual armor—our sword, shield, and protection. It leads us to victory and salvation over evil. But what good is the sword, shield, helmet, and breastplate if we don’t put them on and use them correctly?

Taking time to hear, study, and practice God’s Word is how we learn to use the equipment He has provided. It’s how we protect our souls and help our children, friends, and others protect theirs.

Faith comes from hearing, which leads to understanding and increases our desire to do God’s will in every way. When God’s will is truly in our hearts, our souls, and our minds, we have every desire to love Him with all our strength and keep His commandments.

Satan is real, but we don’t have to be easy targets. Let’s pick up our sword (the Bible) and take action.

Scripture References
Ephesians 6:13-20
2 Timothy 3:16
2 Timothy 2:15
Romans 10:17
Isaiah 5:20
Romans 1:18–32
1 Timothy 4:1-4
2 Timothy 3:1-7

See also: James 4:7; 1 Peter 5:8–9; Hebrews 4:12; Psalm 119:105; 2 Corinthians 2:11; 1 John 4:4; Matthew 4:4, 7, 10

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Wipe that smirk off his face!

Have you ever wanted to wipe the smirk right off of someone’s face? You both know they did you wrong, and they think it’s funny; they think they got away with it. (So they grin.)

This grin or smirk is what I imagine is on Satan’s face when he thinks he’s winning.

But did you know there is a way to wipe that smirk right off Satan’s face? It happens when we focus on God’s Word, do God’s will, and live as the Christians were taught to live in the New Testament. It happens when we humble ourselves to the will of our Heavenly Father rather than our own will.

The smirk fades when we overcome temptations, depression, anger, and the like—when we focus on good things and study that which is perfect, God’s Holy Word. It disappears when we apply the teachings of Christ to our daily lives, share them with others, and help make this world a better place.

This is how we wipe that smirk right off Satan’s face—with the most powerful weapon ever known:

——- LOVE ——-

God’s love for us and our love for God, united with the blood of Jesus.

2 Timothy 2
Philippians 4:8-9
1 Corinthians 13
1 John 4:8

God is love. God First!

My King and My Father: Approaching God with Both Reverence and Confidence

When we approach God’s throne in prayer, we often bow our heads, close our eyes, and kneel. I love doing these gestures because they signify respect, honor, and glory to God. They also help focus our attention solely on the prayer and can be great examples in teaching our children to pray and respect our Heavenly Father.

One thoughtful response to this point put it well: we often bow our heads and hide our faces and eyes out of respect, honor, and submission to Him—especially in times when we need forgiveness, confidence, or assurance—because He is our King. Most of the time, however, we can come confidently and unashamed. We are assured of our place with Him through His Son, and we simply want or need a Father to talk to: a Father who listens, hears, cares, and possesses unending wisdom. He is the Father who is infinite love, who allows us our choices (even the bad ones) and still says, “I’m here. I’m listening. I still love you.” We can share our best days and our worst days with Him, talk about the beauty of creation, or wrestle with hard questions, because He is both our King and our Father.

This said, prayer has no limits! We can pray anywhere at any time in any situation or environment. We don’t pray to impress those around us; we pray to have time with our Creator, say thank you, or ask for help. God is family, and no one loves us the way God loves us, and no one has the ability to help us more than God does. So we can pray out loud or in our mind without a single word spoken, with our eyes wide open, driving down the road, cutting grass, fishing, hunting, cooking, walking the dog, or holding the baby.

God has given each of us the avenue of direct prayer through the name of Jesus, His only begotten Son, so why not take advantage of this incredible opportunity and pray often? God wants to hear from us!

Hebrews 4:14-16; Matthew 6:9; Psalm 47:7; Isaiah 33:22; Isaiah 63:16; John 20:17; Romans 8:15-16; 1 Thessalonians 5:17; Ephesians 6:18; James 5:13; Romans 12:12; Matthew 6:5-7; 1 John 5:14-15; Luke 15:10; 1 John 3:1; 1 John 4:8; Romans 8:1; 1 Corinthians 1:25.

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Don’t Treat God’s Word Like Junk Mail

When I wrote this, I had just read what I usually dismiss as “junk mail.” It was from a natural gas competitor to the company I’ve used for years. Normally I throw such advertisements away, but this one caught my attention. I realized I had no idea what I was paying per therm. I pulled out my last bill and thought I must have misread it, so I called my gas company to check.

I was shocked. Because our contract had expired long ago, we had been automatically switched to a monthly rate that was almost double the locked-in contract rate. I had been paying hundreds of dollars more than necessary simply because I never took the time to sign a new fixed-rate contract.

As I thought about it, I realized it was my fault—not the gas company’s. Notices had almost certainly gone out. The option to lock in a better rate had always been available. I simply paid little attention and eventually forgot. I paid a high price for failing to understand how the system worked.

I have since taken a little time to learn the details and locked in a 24-month contract at roughly half the rate I had been paying.

Although God’s Word is not “junk mail,” it often lies on tables, bookshelves, and cabinets untouched and forgotten by many, as if it were.

As someone who once neglected Scripture but now studies it, I see clear similarities between my gas-bill experience and the way many of us treat the Word of God. We set it aside instead of opening it.

Through God’s Word we can know:

  • His love and desires for our well-being
  • His creative work, past plans, and future purposes
  • That nothing He does is accidental—everything is part of a plan to offer eternal life to those who accept His terms
  • The Son of God, who was with the Father in the beginning and shared in creation
  • That Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection make eternal life available to all through God’s grace
  • What obedient faith looks like and how to receive that grace
  • How to discern true teaching from false teaching

The list is endless. Yet if we never take the time to learn what God has actually said, we will miss the offer—just as I missed the lower gas rate.

It is never too late for anyone still on this earth to begin studying and responding to God’s invitation. His offer of eternal life is unmatched, and it is not as complicated as many assume. Spend time in the one book that leads to life with Him. As you do, you will want to act on what you discover.

Whose fault will it be if you ignore God’s offer by failing to learn what He requires?

Hear the gospel.
Believe that Jesus is the Son of God.
Repent of your sins.
Confess Jesus as Lord.
Be baptized for the forgiveness of your sins in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
Live faithfully until you leave this earth for eternal life with God and His people.

Supporting Scriptures

Grace: Ephesians 2:8; Romans 3:24; Titus 2:11; Acts 15:11
Hearing the Gospel: Romans 10:17; John 8:32
Belief/Faith: Hebrews 11:1; John 8:24; Romans 10:17; Acts 3:19; Matthew 16:16
Repentance: 2 Corinthians 7:9-10; Luke 13:3-5; Acts 17:30
Confession: Romans 10:9-10; Matthew 10:32-33; Luke 12:8-9; Matthew 16:16
Baptism (for the forgiveness of sins): 1 Peter 3:21; Acts 2:38; Mark 16:16; John 3:5; Matthew 28:18-20; Ephesians 4:5; Romans 6:3-4; Colossians 2:12; Acts 8:36-39; Mark 1:9-10; John 3:23; Acts 22:16
Live Faithfully: Revelation 2:10; Philippians 2:12
Study and Act: 2 Timothy 2:15; James 1:22; Acts 17:11

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Missing the mark so closely can have dramatic results.

One day, while cutting down a tree on our property, I ”missed the mark.” I missed it by a couple of inches, dropping the large dead tree in the opposite direction of my intention. My cut was slightly below the wedge I’d removed. I realized it when the tree clamped down on my chainsaw, and it became stuck in the tree. I shut it off and walked away with my brother. As we contemplated the next step, a branch fell from the tree. Shortly after, we watched as the whole tree slowly leaned and fell. The bar on my chainsaw then looked like a twisted metal pretzel.

It’s eye-opening to think about how “missing the mark” so closely changed the results so dramatically.

Thankfully, the result of that day’s mistake didn’t matter much, and nobody got hurt, but it sure reinforces the importance of “hitting the mark” when missing so closely can result in disaster.

It’s also important that we “hit the mark” in doing God’s will; being careless can have dire consequences.

In Matthew 7:21, Jesus said: “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.”

We really have no excuses for not doing the will of God according to God’s will, as we have the complete word of God (The Bible) readily available. However, scripture does not come by osmosis; We can only know scripture through study. It’s so important that we really can’t allow others to do it for us. We all need to understand Scripture as we are each responsible for working out our own salvation.

“Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling,” Philippians 2:12 ESV.

See also: James 1:22; 2 Timothy 2:15; Luke 6:46; Matthew 7:24–27.

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Love Does Not End at Death: Lessons from the Rich Man and Lazarus

(The Rich Man and Lazarus) I heard a preacher point out that this is more of an illustration story than a parable because it uses a proper name.

One of many lessons we can gain from this story is that a person continues after death. Whether in the Paradise portion of Hades or the Torment side, recognition, memory, concern, and awareness continue. The rich man wanted to warn his family and was told, “They have Moses and the Prophets; let them hear them.” God’s Word was their opportunity then. Today we have Jesus and the completed God-breathed words of Scripture.

“Love does not end at death.”

God’s Word is the pathway by which people come to know their Creator and trust in Jesus—the only way to the Father (John 14:6).

Matthew 22:37 commands us to love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, and mind. This story shows that the person (the conscious soul/spirit) continues with memory, recognition, and concern after the body returns to dust.

This account is found in Luke 16:19-31. Other clear points include recognition, remembrance, concern for others, pain, the fixed chasm, and the fact that there is no second chance. Our time is now.

See: Luke 16:19-31; Luke 23:43; 2 Corinthians 5:8; Hebrews 9:27; John 14:6; Matthew 22:37; 1 Corinthians 13:1-13 (especially 13:8).

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Choices make a difference

Deuteronomy 30:15–20

15 “See, I have set before you today life and prosperity, and death and adversity;
16 in that I command you today to love the Lord your God, to walk in His ways and to keep His commandments and His statutes and His judgments, that you may live and multiply, and that the Lord your God may bless you in the land where you are entering to possess it.
17 But if your heart turns away and you will not obey, but are drawn away and worship other gods and serve them,
18 I declare to you today that you shall surely perish. You will not prolong your days in the land where you are crossing the Jordan to enter and possess it.
19 I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse. So choose life in order that you may live, you and your descendants,
20 by loving the Lord your God, by obeying His voice, and by holding fast to Him; for this is your life and the length of your days, that you may live in the land which the Lord swore to your fathers, to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, to give them.”

Joshua 24:14–15

14 “Now, therefore, fear the Lord and serve Him in sincerity and truth; and put away the gods which your fathers served beyond the River and in Egypt, and serve the Lord.
15 If it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the Lord, choose for yourselves today whom you will serve: whether the gods which your fathers served which were beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites in whose land you are living; but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”

Matthew 7:13–14

13 “Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter through it.
14 For the gate is small and the way is narrow that leads to life, and there are few who find it.”

John 3:16–18

16 “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.
17 For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him.
18 He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.”

Related passages (NASB1995)

  • Romans 10:9–10: “that if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved; for with the heart a person believes, resulting in righteousness, and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation.”
  • Hebrews 2:3: “how will we escape if we neglect so great a salvation? After it was at the first spoken through the Lord, it was confirmed to us by those who heard,”
  • Hebrews 3:12–15: “Take care, brethren, that there not be in any one of you an evil, unbelieving heart that falls away from the living God. But encourage one another day after day, as long as it is still called ‘Today,’ so that none of you will be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin. For we have become partakers of Christ, if we hold fast the beginning of our assurance firm until the end, while it is said, ‘Today if you hear His voice, Do not harden your hearts, as when they provoked Me.’”
  • 2 Thessalonians 1:7–9: “and to give relief to you who are afflicted and to us as well when the Lord Jesus will be revealed from heaven with His mighty angels in flaming fire, dealing out retribution to those who do not know God and to those who do not obey the gospel of our Lord Jesus. These will pay the penalty of eternal destruction, away from the presence of the Lord and from the glory of His power,”

Thank You—And Why I Keep Writing

Thank you to everyone who reads the messages in Advocate for Christ. Writing and sharing these posts is one way I can do good and serve the Lord while caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s (see Galatians 6:9). I don’t write for accolades. If something here encourages or challenges you, feel free to respond with a like, love, comment, or share—especially if you believe it could benefit someone else. That’s how these messages get seen and read on social media.

My hope is twofold:

  1. To strengthen, encourage, and inspire those who are in Christ to study, grow, and practically apply God’s Word to daily life. As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another (Proverbs 27:17). I welcome respectful, Scripture-based conversation that helps us all grow.
  2. To share the message of Christ with those who do not yet know Him—those who are currently lost according to God’s Word. By turning from their own way (repentance) and trusting and obeying Jesus, they can receive forgiveness and the promise of eternal life. This change of life and doing His will flows from trusting Him. His yoke is easy and His burden is light (Matthew 11:28–30).

My intent is not that anyone believe my words simply because I said them, but that they spark further study. If what I wrote differs from what you believe, please clarify the difference with Scripture—not feelings. Our souls depend on it, and I want to know if I am wrong so I can correct it. How about you?

Today, much so-called wisdom is grounded in feelings that weaken, discount, or set aside truth. This artificial wisdom encourages apathy when following Scripture conflicts with someone’s preferences or ideas. God is unchanging, and His Word is unchanging.

The truth is in God’s Word, not in what any man or woman teaches.

John 17:17; Proverbs 26:12; Proverbs 27:17; 2 Timothy 2:15; 1 John 4:1; Hebrews 4:12; Galatians 6:9; Matthew 11:28–30

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